Meet Therapist Steve Dacey

Steve Dacey

Licensed Clinical Social Worker, Certified Sex Therapist

Pronouns: He/ Him

E-mail: steve@embodiedchange.me

Phone: 207-230-6498

Education: Master of Social Work, Silberman School of Social Work at Hunter College

Professional Associations: NASW, AASECT

Strengths: Sex and Sexuality Therapy, LGBTQIA+ Concerns, Relationship Issues, Ethical Non-Monogamy & Polyamory, Trauma and Post-Traumatic Stress

Currently Working With: Teens and Adults; Couples and Non-Monogamous Relationship Constellations

About Me | Treatment Areas | Modalities & Approaches | Rates | Payment

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About Me

Power of Your Story

I believe people have the power to re-author their stories. Whether the work is brief (dealing with one present problem) or longer-term (exploring life narratives or trauma), my goal is to walk with folks as they move towards lives that they want to live. I know the importance of feeling seen by counselors in this journey, and understand that shared identity may make new relationships feel safer. I’m a white, non-disabled cis-man living and working on unceded Wabanaki Territory - I’ve also worked extensively with women, people of color, disabled people, and trans folks, and am dedicated to anti-oppressive practice. I always welcome looking at power in the therapeutic relationship.

Healing Through Connection

In my experience, relationships can be both the site of the deepest harms and the most fertile soil to building safety. I've specialized in sex and sexuality therapy because I believe that, for many, sex can be an area of the most acute relationship distress AND the most impactful transformation. I work with individuals, couples, and relationship systems to talk through problems —including desire discrepancies, sexual anxiety, consensual nonmonogamy-related relational challenges, and the impacts of sexual trauma—, build somatic awareness, and analyze the impact of systems of power and oppression in folks' day to day lives. I hope the counseling room can be a space to see problems more clearly, to try on new ways of being, and to go to closely guarded places.

Loving What I Get to Do

I am so grateful to get to accompany people on their journeys towards preferred selves and lives, and feel incredibly lucky to witness the energy and courage with which people face the challenges in front of them. If it feels like we might be a fit, feel free to reach out - I look forward to meeting you.


Treatment areas:

  • ADHD

  • Adoption

  • Anger Management

  • Anxiety, Panic, & Stress Disorders

  • Communication Issues

  • Codependency

  • Depression

  • Ethical Non-Monogamy & Polyamory

  • Family of Origin/ Chosen Family Conflict

  • Grief & Loss

  • Infidelity

  • Intimate Partner Violence

  • LGBTQIA+ Discrimination & Internalized Oppression

  • Racism, Prejudice, and Oppression

  • Sex Work

  • Sexual Abuse

  • Sexuality, Kink, & Sexual Functioning

Modalities & Approaches Include:

  • Attachment-based approaches

  • Family Systems

  • Feminist

  • Harm Reduction

  • Internal Family Systems

  • Mindfulness-Based interventions

  • Narrative Practice

  • Person-Centered Therapy

  • Somatic Experiencing

  • Trauma Focused care


Rates for Clinical Services

$140  Individual Therapy, per 50-55 minute session 

$140  Partners or Relationship Therapy, per 50-55 minute session 

$220  Partners or Relationship Therapy, per 90 minute session

Please contact me to inquire about my sliding scale rates for self-paying clients, and low cost options for those with financial need.

Payment

Payment is due at the time of service. I accept cash, checks, and debit/credit/ HSA cards.

I am in network with the following insurances:

  • Aetna

  • Anthem/ Blue Cross Blue Shield

  • Cigna/Evernorth

  • Community Health Options

  • Harvard Pilgrim

  • United Healthcare/ Optum

  • MaineCare (Medicaid)

  • MaineHealth

  • Martin’s Point

  • Medicare

Schedule a Session with Steve

My schedule is currently full, and I have closed my waitlist for the time being. I will return to update this page at the end of the summer. In the meantime, please reach out to one of the other amazing counselors here at TFTP to see if they can support you!